HEALING COLLECTIONS: ALL

Welcome to the Healing Collections! This is a collaborative collection of recommendations made by our community of survivors of sexual violence of St Andrews. It is comprised of things – books, podcast, TV shows, art etc. – which have personally helped us on our journeys towards healing. We hope that they will help you too! If you would like to recommend a resource yourself, please submit your recommendation at Contribute to our healing collections!  

We have tried to make it easier for you to find resources which are particularly suited to your intersectional identity, which may have had an impact on your experience of sexual violence. Each post is ‘tagged’ with the identities the recommender felt the resource would be most useful for. Of course all resources are open to everyone! We apologise if there aren’t any or many posts under some of the tags yet. Check back another time – hopefully someone will have contributed a resource that is helpful to you!

(Currently tags are visible at the bottom of each post when you click on it. We are still working on the search function that will make finding the right resources easier!)

All submissions are also categorised according to what kind of activity they are. See the dropdown list in the menu bar to filter for types of activity. 

Bliss Club: Sex Tips for Creative Lovers by June Pla

it has helped me build confidence in my sexual self. It also reinforces the general truth that everyone is different and likes different things. This is important as a survivor I often feel a burden of being ‘different’ when it comes to sexual activities. Normalising this helps relieve that burden.

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All About Love – bell hooks

This book opened my eyes to the ways in which patriarchy shapes the way we relate to one another romantically, in non-romantic settings and sexually. It helped me articulate what is important to me in a relationship, what commitment, respect and communication look like to me.

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Davida – Power & Resilience Playlist

This is a selection of songs I listen to when I’m in need of some woman empowerment, when I’m in a bit of a ‘f*** you, men’ mood (sorry men). Most of these songs make me feel strong and independent, although a few are a little more lowkey or emotionally piercing, like ‘bruises’ or ‘I carried this for years’.

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Emjoy – best sexual wellbeing app for womxn EVER!

I LOVE this app. I used to think I needed a partner, or at least a second person, to be able to start exploring my sexuality again. I realised not too long ago, however, that this was utter rubbish! I don’t need to wait around for someone to empower me sexually…

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Calm app – self-care, meditation, sleep

I find it incredibly grounding and nurturing, especially during times when I feel very internally destabilised. It has helped me practice self-forgiveness, letting go, and made my inner voice much less critical of myself.

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Playlist- Matthew’s Songs that Helped Me Heal

I’ve always been one to ‘wallow’ with the music I choose, so I tend to opt for lyrics that are maybe slightly more ‘raw’ or feel a bit too ‘real.’ It is my hope however that if these songs helped me to heal, they might also help someone else.

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Yoga for Post Traumatic Stress

This and similar yoga videos inspired me to take care of my body and mental health and connect my mind to my body when I felt incredibly divorced from my physical form and control over my physical form.

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Trauma Queen Podcast

This podcast is hosted by Jimanekia Eborn, a Queer Media Consultant, Sex Educator and Sexual Assault and Trauma Expert. Listening to it helped me realise that I’m not alone in my experiences

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Normal People

Normal People showed sex could be intimate and personal, that there was no need to be afraid of revealing your vulnerabilities because people will love you no matter what.

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Mooncup- menstrual cup

I love using the mooncup because it has helped me reconnect with my body – especially a part of my body which is highly connected with sexuality and which is particular laden with complex emotions following sexual assault.

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